One night I looked at my kids and thought—what if I die, and they’re left to figure life out the hard way like I had to?

This blog is my way of handing them a flashlight through the dark parts. It’s full of the truth I’ve fought to learn—lessons on love, parenting, self-worth, heartbreak, forgiveness, and how to stand up for yourself in a way most people never teach you.

It’s not always pretty and it is not always painless, But it’s real.

If I Die, Read This

I’ve lived more lives than I ever thought I would—and for a long time, I didn’t realize how not-normal my “normal” was.

I’ve faced abuse, heartbreak, destructive cycles… and clawed my way toward healing. I’ve learned to parent differently, love differently, and choose better—because I had to.

This isn’t a blog about blame.

It’s about awareness. Healing. And choosing love every day—even when it’s hard.

If you’re here to break cycles, to stand taller, to love better, and to raise your kids with more intention than you were shown…

Welcome. You’re in the right place.